We seem to be relentlessly connected to one another but we have never been more alone.
I recently sat at a table at a restaurant and at the next table was a middle aged woman, a teenaged girl and a man who was probably the girl’s grandfather and near 80 years old. The elderly man was talking to the woman and the teenager. I watched the scene. The middle aged woman was listening to the elderly man but the teenager was holding her phone in front of her face, blocking the view of her grandfather. The girl’s thumbs were flying as she texted friends.
This young girl was missing out on a chance to talk with her grandfather who was seated in front of her and texting presumably “some friends.”
Another young girl, a 17-year old, recently asked me to guess how many texts she wrote last month. I guessed about 6,000. She smiled and showed me her display screen which displayed her total of over 11,900 texts for the month. That works out to about 396 texts a day for the month.
One writer in the Seattle Times Sunday Magazine recently wrote that “here people you think you know can click on your name and either add you to their lives or delete you in an instant. No muss, no fuss. It’s all so impersonal yet hard not to take personally.”
Recently Todd Rutherford of PublishingGuru.com wrote about this theme in “The Illusion of Certainty.”
Greg Messel’s The Illusion of Certainty illuminates how technology has created an illusion of certainty for humans, making us feel as though we can “carefully monitor and control the events in our life.” Although the electronic tools we use give us a sense of power, they inevitably break down the paths of human communication and give us a false sense of control, as if we could control humans as we control our schedules and daily tasks.
Messel describes how his protagonist, Marc, has “automated his life,” checking in to flights online, using his Hertz Number One card to “skip standing in line at the counter with the unwashed masses” by going directly to the parking lot, checking the electronic board for his name, and going directly to the designated stall number, checking into hotels with a swipe of a credit card at an electronic kiosk, and communicating with his project team through electronic messages, precluding him from social interaction completely. The automation of his life begins extending from his work life into his family life, texting and e-mailing his children instead of calling them; “Marc used simple, short texts to accomplish what was passing these days for staying in touch with his children.”
When Marc does eventually see his son face-to-face, his son’s life is also automated, incessantly texting rather than talking to his father who is directly in front of him, part of a generation that “documents everything too much.” He reminds his son that he “didn’t travel a thousand miles so I could sit here and watch you text your friends” and asks him to “cease and desist on texting,” reminding him; “I’m actually here. You do know I’m real, not a hologram or MPEG or something, right?” He strives to build a genuine conversation between two people who no longer know how to communicate without electronic support; “Josh, let’s look into one another’s eyes and talk. People used to do that and it worked nicely.”
Messel illuminates how deeply technological control of our lives has been ingrained in our vocabulary and thought patterns when a co-worker of Marc’s encourages him to “reboot” his life, as though there is a button that you can push to re-set life. In the Illusion of Certainty, Messel highlights the fact that all of these tools only serve to give us a false sense of control over our lives, as Marc’s carefully controlled life spins very much out of the control of his electronic tools, with no “reboot” button, and illustrates that as members of a modern society, we no longer know how to interact with humans, with each other.
The characters in my new novel discover the healing impact of the human touch.
A SAM SLATER MYSTERY -- BUY SAN FRANCISCO SECRETS
BUY DEADLY PLUNGE
- Book Trailer For "Deadly Plunge"
- Buy "Deadly Plunge" at Amazon
- Buy "Deadly Plunge" at Barnes & Noble
- Buy Deadly Plunge on ITunes
- Read Excerpt of "Deadly Plunge"
- Read Review of "Deadly Plunge" at Kaisy Daisy Book Reviews
- Review of "Deadly Plunge" by Sarah Ballance
- Review of "Deadly Plunge" by Vic's Media Room
- See Review of "Deadly Plunge"
- See Review of "Deadly Plunge" at From The TBR Pile
- See Review of "Deadly Plunge" at Jersey Girl Book Reviews
BUY EXPIATION
BUY LAST OF THE SEALS
- "Last of the Seals" Review by From TBR Pile
- Buy "Last of the Seals" for Kindle for $2.99
- Buy "Last of the Seals" for Nook for $2.99
- Buy "Last of the Seals" on ITunes
- Buy "Last of the Seals" on ITunes for $2.99 “Last of the Seals” Now Available on ITunes
- Buy All of Greg Messel's Books on Amazon
- Character Interview With Amelia Ryan
- Click to Buy "Last of the Seals" at Barnes & Noble
- Click to Buy "Last of the Seals" on Amazon
- Dream Cast for "Last of the Seals" movie
- Extended "Last Of The Seals" Book Trailer
- Interview With Seattle PI
- Join the Virtual Book Tour For "Last of the Seals"
- Read excerpt on Book Buzz
BUY SUNBREAKS
BUY THE ILLUSION OF CERTAINTY
- Buy "The Illusion of Certainty" for Kindle $2.99
- Buy "The Illusion of Certainty" on ITunes for $2.99
- Buy "The Illusion of Certainty" Paperback from Barnes & Noble for $14.99
- Buy All of Greg Messel's Books on Amazon
- Buy" The Illusion of Certainty" for Nook for $2.99
- Watch Book Trailer for "The Illusion of Certainty"
CONNECT WITH GREG MESSEL ON SOCIAL NETWORK
- Facebook Facebook
- Facebook Fan Page Facebook Fan Page
- Twitter Twitter
GREG MESSEL'S BOOKS ON OTHER BLOGS
- "Expiation" in Top Ten of 2010
- "Last of the Seals" Review by From TBR Pile
- Book Buzz Site
- Boston Globe Recommends Expiation
- Goodreads Goodreads….Book…
- Independent Author Network
- Join Me On My Book Tour for "The Illusion of Certainty" Read Reviews, Interviews, Guest Posts
- Join Me On My Virtual Book Tour For Expiation
- Join the Virtual Book Tour For "Last of the Seals"
- Read excerpt on Book Buzz
REVISIT SAN FRANCISCO & WORLD OF LAST OF THE SEALS IN 1950s
- Bill Soto-Castellanos' Memories of Seals Stadium
- Buy book "16th & Bryant–My Life & Education with the San Francisco Seals" by Bill Soto-Castellanos
- Funhouse At The Beach in San Francisco
- KRON TV San Francisco News Broadcast from 1957
- Playland At The Beach in San Francisco 1960
- TWA Stewardess in 1950s
- TWA Stewardess' Coke Commerical
- Vintage TWA Stewardess Video
- Watch San Francisco Giants at Seals Stadium in 1958
WATCH BOOK TRAILERS
-
Join 29 other subscribers
Blog Stats
- 10,349 hits
Archives
- July 2013
- June 2013
- April 2013
- February 2013
- January 2013
- December 2012
- October 2012
- September 2012
- August 2012
- July 2012
- June 2012
- May 2012
- April 2012
- March 2012
- February 2012
- January 2012
- December 2011
- November 2011
- October 2011
- September 2011
- August 2011
- July 2011
- June 2011
- May 2011
- April 2011
- March 2011
- February 2011
- January 2011
- December 2010
- November 2010
- October 2010
- September 2010
- July 2010
Tags
- 1957 San Francisco
- 1958 San Francisco
- 1960's
- 1970's
- authors
- Baby Boomers
- baseball game
- Book Fair
- Books
- Deadly Plunge
- Edmonds
- Expiation
- fiction
- foggy san francisco
- Greg Messel
- high school sweethearts
- history
- Illusion of Certainty
- interview
- London
- love
- minor league baseball
- Mystery
- novels
- Paris
- Patty Hearst
- Portland
- private detective agency
- Private Detectives
- Relationships
- San Francisco
- San Francisco Seals
- San Francisco Secrets
- Seattle
- Stewardesses
- Sunbreaks
- The Last of the Seals
- Trafford
- TWA Stewardesses
- Uncertainty
- Write on the Sound
- writers
- writing
-
Join 29 other subscribers
My Tweets
Tweets by gregmessel